By Ms Merlin Sheeba, Occupational Therapist, Vellore


Do’s

Provide visual supports: Use schedules, pictures, or other visual aids to help them understand expectations and routines.

Create a predictable and structured environment: Routines and predictability can help reduce anxiety and promote a sense of security.

Be patient and calm: Children with autism may take time to respond or adapt to new situations.

Encourage communication: Use gestures, pictures, or devices if verbal communication is difficult.

Respect their sensory needs: Be aware of sensory sensitivities and provide a comfortable environment.

Celebrate small achievements: Recognize and reward progress, however small it may seem.

Use clear and simple language: This helps avoid confusion and supports better understanding.


Don’ts

Don’t assume they understand everything: Always check for understanding.

Don’t force eye contact or physical interaction: Respect their personal boundaries.

Don’t change routines abruptly: Sudden changes can cause distress.

Don’t use negative reinforcement: Focus on positive behavior support.

Don’t talk over or ignore them: Include them in conversations and decisions.

Don’t overwhelm with too much information at once: Give time to process.

Don’t compare with other children: Every child with autism is unique.